In the process of getting a second opinion for treatment options, my Dad has had a relapse of severe back pain which has now put treating his cancer on hold (which I hate). We were given a few options for treating this pain.
- Pain medication (which he is taking, but is not ideal)
- Extreme back surgery that involves removing the tumor, inserting rods and bolts to stabilize the spine and would require total bed rest up to 6 weeks following the surgery. Recovery time (if he recovered completely) would most likely take 3 months and might not reduce pain. This (we are told) is the "best" way to avoid paralysis, but at the same time could "cause" paralysis too.
- Kyphoplasty: which is an outpatient procedure in which the doctor will insert a needle into the damaged vertebrae, burn out part of the tumor with a saline solution and then insert a balloon into the burned out area where it will be inflated. This will essentially jack up (like a car jack) the collapsed vertebrae. After the balloon is inflated the doctor will then fill the hollowed out area with thick bone cement which should ease his pain significantly.
As you can imagine we are all very afraid, but are at peace with the decision we've made. This will hopefully get us into a cancer treatment sooner although we run the risk of eventual paralysis because the tumor could still grow and compress his spinal cord. -Please pray this doesn't happen.
Yesterday, I was sitting in a staff meeting and we were praying over all of the congregation requests and prayer concerns. I hear all the concerns week after week for loved ones who are battling some form of cancer and I notice how this disease is no respecter of age... When I think of my Dad, I also remember George Roach (one of the bravest men I've met), Sarah's 27 year old cousin Andy who has sinus cancer (which has now invaded the bones in his face) and little Wesley Jaeger (5 years old) who continues to fight so hard. My Dad's faith has grown tremendously through this horrible trial. The other day we were talking and he said "Why should I be spared from this... just look at the life that God has given me. Others have not been so blessed."
God has commissioned us to relieve suffering. Although we cannot take away the pain of others, we can go through it with them. We can hold their hands, pray with them and for them, comfort and encourage them. We can laugh with them, cry with them or just spend time with them...We cannot spare them their trial, but we can share the load and walk along with them.
"Therefore, I urge you brothers to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God-this is your spiritual act of worship." -Romans 12:1
I admire your bravery is sharing your story with everyone. I know this is the scariest situation we have yet faced together, but I know there are brighter days ahead...even if it is July.
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